Create systems to organize schedules and give yourself a break

Fall is one of the busiest seasons of the year. Between school, sports, homework, and social activities, it can feel like you’re living in a constant state of catch-up. But the right calendar systems and routines can bring order (and even calm) back into your home. Here are three hacks we recommend to help your family stay organized and make space for what really matters.

1. Create a System That Works for You

Every family is different, so the key is choosing a calendar system that fits your lifestyle. Some of our my clients love the Skylight Calendar, a digital wall display that syncs with Google, Apple, and Outlook calendars. It automatically pulls in everyone’s schedules so you can see the entire family’s week at a glance. Color-coded events make it easy to spot what belongs to each person, and the touch-screen lets you add events right on the display without digging for your phone.

Families often hang the Skylight Calendar in a central spot such as the kitchen or mudroom, so kids can check it themselves before school. It gives them ownership over their schedule and cuts down on the constant “What time is practice?” questions.

If you prefer a low-tech approach, a large weekly dry erase board works beautifully, too. At the start of the week, write down meals, practices, and appointments in one place. Pairing this with a shared grocery list app (like AnyList or Google Keep) makes planning even more seamless.

The important thing is consistency. Once you pick a system, stick with it. Kids will quickly learn to check the calendar instead of relying on you for every answer.

2. Establish Weekly Routines (and Delegate!)

A calendar isn’t just about keeping track of schedules, it’s about setting rhythms for your family. One of the best habits you can build is a weekly family meeting. Take 15 minutes on Sunday night to sit down together, talk through the week, and make sure everyone knows what’s ahead. Even if your kids are young, it’s never too early to bring them into the conversation and let them know what to expect for the coming week. This is also the perfect time to delegate responsibilities. Kids can add their own activities to the board or take ownership of chores. Partners can step in to cover rides or meals. When everyone participates, the mental load doesn’t fall on just one person. 

I can tell you from experience that my teenagers used to groan when we forced them to add their activities to Google Calendar and send us invites during our weekly meetings, but seeing them successfully use their digital calendars in college has reaffirmed that it was worth the effort!!

3. Plan for Sanity, Not Just Schedules

It’s easy to let the calendar fill up with obligations, but it’s just as important to carve out space for fun and downtime. Add family movie night, Saturday morning pancakes, or a walk after dinner to the calendar, the same way you would a soccer game or dentist appointment. This is easier said than done, but also don’t be afraid to say “no”. Protecting white space on your calendar is one of the best ways to reduce stress. When you plan for self-care and rest, you show your family that balance is just as important as being busy.

Bottom Line: Calendars aren’t just about organization, they’re about creating systems that make family life smoother, more intentional, and a whole lot less stressful. With the right tools and routines, you’ll spend less time scrambling and more time enjoying the season together.

Susie

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